Namaste! Aap sab kaise hain? Aaj main aapse ek bahut hi khaas topic par baat karna chahti hoon – hamare rishtey. Aap sab jaante hain ki 18 saalon se zyada samay se Manas mein counselling karte hue, maine dekha hai ki hamare rishte, chahe woh parivaar ke saath ho, doston ke saath ho, ya humsafar ke saath, hamari khushiyon aur hamaare mann ki shaanti ke liye kitne zaroori hain. Kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki hum sab bahut bhaag daud mein hain aur rishton ko woh waqt nahi de paate jiski unhein zaroorat hai. Lekin yaad rakhiye, ek mazboot rishta ek ped ki tarah hota hai, jise lagataar paani aur dhyan ki zaroorat hoti hai, tabhi woh phalta phoolta hai.
Ek Chhota Sa Kadam, Bada Fark Laye
Maine apne kai clients se yeh seekha hai ki rishton mein sabse chhota lekin sabse asardar kaam jo aap kar sakte hain, woh hai – sachche dil se sunna. Jab koi aapse baat kar raha ho, toh sirf sunne ke liye nahi, balki samajhne ke liye suniye. Unki aankhon mein dekhiye, unki baaton ke peeche ki feelings ko mehsoos karne ki koshish kijiye. Phone ya dusri cheezein ek taraf rakh dijiye. Yeh chhoti si koshish bhi dikhati hai ki aap unki kitni parwah karte hain, aur yeh rishte ko gehri tarah se jodta hai.
Khud Se Poochiye…
Aaj shaam ya jab bhi aapko mauka mile, yeh khud se poochne ki koshish kijiye: “Aaj maine kis aise shaks se baat ki, jiske liye maine sach mein pura dhyan diya aur unhe mehsoos karaya ki main unhe samajh raha hoon?” Yeh reflection aapko batayega ki aapke rishton mein kahaan aur behtar kar sakte hain.
Yaad rakhiye, rishton ko behtar banane ka safar, khud ko behtar banane ka hi ek hissa hai. Agar aapko kabhi bhi apne rishton ya kisi aur vyaktigat chunauti mein madad ki zaroorat mehsoos ho, toh Manas mein hum aapke liye yahaan hain. Bhopal mein hum aapki madad ke liye hamesha taiyaar hain.
